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Dreams are overrated, they vary with the time

I have always been a dream person. In eighth grade, I was dreaming that one day Michael Jordan will train me even in one of my dreams he was there so I continued with my game for 7 years. I wished to play for open states which I did in the very beginning, wished for Nationals got selected many times just because of SAs wasn't able to go, wished to play for North-West Zone so I did and many more wishes but eventually started having bizarre allergies and injuries so I guess I had to drop that dream of mine. I was all at sea and wasn't able to open up to reality wondering what I will do in life as my biggest dream just vanished like that. All seven years seem nothing but a blur.  After contemplating for a while I thought why not give it a try in banking. I studied a lot and it was really difficult at the initial levels but then I met a great mentor and he helped me to reach from 25 to 58 points. I started dreaming again, thought of working in the Central Bank. For me, it was l

Being immature is by choice not by compulsion

People these days put their hundred per cent to show that no one's more mature than them. They want to show it too much that at some point in life they forget whether they are mature or they are just pretending to be in the act of life just like the whole nine yards. When I realized it's very important for people to act mature in front of all in all spheres of life I just took to my heels seems like the best option I had. Sometimes it's difficult to decipher why everyone behaves like that, why so serious and so on while on the other hand, you can deal with tough situations by being immature and bubbly which relaxes your mind with less amount of worries, pressure, fears, etc. People misjudge me very often. I act immature all the time as for me maturity comes at a different level, for example, not crying for four months when someone close to you dies to maintain harmony in the family knowing you are the only strength, not talking back to your work people when they laugh